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What is hard to get from one's surroundings?

1. The cessation of an abusive behavior.  
What is accepted is a reprimand, to which it is polite to respond with a temporary show of contrition.  
In contrast, insisting that the words be followed by action is perceived as a declaration of war. There is no longer family, friends, or friendly colleagues. All means become permissible, especially undermining the credibility of the person who had the audacity to provoke the conflict. Getting support from other group members also affected by the criticism then becomes the basic strategy.

2. Adopting a life plan based not only on simple social ambition.  
Such a change is unfortunately only observed in practice following a trauma (illness, etc.). This is why the advancement ofeducationis of primary importance.

Go deeper

First, consult the related question 'What is a well-functioning family?', which explains the  
Then, consult the following questions 'Why are small gestures for the planet dangerous?', 'What is an adult?', and 'What should be done in a family where lying is the rule?' which address related topics.  
Finally, the questions 'What is cognitive dissonance?' and 'Putting an end to the abusive use of psychotropics and psychotherapy' expand the scope of family dysfunctions by introducing the concept of the infernal triangle of cognitive dissonance.

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