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What is difficult to obtain from one's surroundings?

1. The cessation of an abusive practice.
What is accepted is a reprimand, to which one is socially expected to respond with a passing attitude of contrition.
However, insisting that words be followed by actions is perceived as a declaration of war. At that point, there is no longer any family, friends, or friendly colleagues. All means become permissible, starting with discrediting the wrongly taught person who dared to trigger the hostilities. Obtaining the support of other group members also concerned by the criticism is then the basic strategy.

2. The adoption of a life plan whose basis is not mere social ambition.
Such a change, unfortunately, is only observed in practice following a trauma (illness, etc.). Hence the paramount importance of advancingeducation.

Deepen

First consult the related question 'What is a well-functioning family?' which clarifies the
Then consult the questions 'Why are small gestures for the planet dangerous?', 'What is an adult?', and 'What to do in a family where lying is the rule?' which address related topics.
Finally, the questions 'What is cognitive dissonance?' and 'Putting an end to the abusive use of psychotropics and psychotherapies' broaden the scope of family dysfunction by introducing the notion of the cognitive dissonance infernal triangle.

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