↩ Homepage of the site 'What to do with your life?' Put an end to the abusive use of psychotropic drugs and psychotherapiesThe present question deals with the fundamental and largely ignored importance of the infernal triangle of cognitive dissonance at the level of psychological unhappiness. This triangle is presented to the question 'What is cognitive dissonance?' which we invite you to read beforehand.Qu'est ce que la dissonance cognitive ?' que nous vous invitons à lire préalablement. Let us list the different modalities of action of the oppressor individual A on the victim B, in an infernal triangle of cognitive dissonance:
These three sources of oppression correspond to the expression of an individual's omnipotence at the social, physical, and intellectual levels respectively. When they exist, the deleterious effect of complacent individuals C on victim B is absolutely not negligible. Indeed, to maintain the lie to oneself which preserves the alliance of the complacent C with the aggressor A, C needs to convince the victim B of the truth of this lie, therefore will create confusion among B, which will result by an existential malaise, all the more easily since C is experienced and highly intelligent and B is young. C becomes by force of circumstances an A using the third modality. The MeToo movement has made us aware of the extent of inappropriate sexual gestures. Furthermore, both in terms of sexual assaults linked to the world of cinema, as well as those perpetrated within the Catholic Church, society has become aware of the key role played by those who know and say nothing. We have a triangle A aggressor, B victim, C complacent with A. At the political level, the pressure to make others accept an untruth or reproduce behavior that they consider inappropriate has been particularly strong in communist countries where lies are almost absolute. At the domestic and professional level, this problem is currently universal and probably represents nothing less than the main source of psychological unhappiness bypassed instead of being treated. Faced with psychological suffering, it is appropriate to proceed methodically: 1. Is the cause organic? 2. Are we in the presence of an infernal triangle of cognitive dissonance (with the presence of C individuals or not)? 3. Psychotropic drugs artificially change our brain chemistry. 4. Psychotherapies far too often seek to act like psychotropic drugs. They forget that the basic action should be that of step 2, namely to highlight, denounce and combat the infernal triangles of cognitive dissonance. In doing so, they contribute to gradually locking the individual into a harmful spiral of denial of reality and compensation, without confronting the real problems at the source. Finally, let's return once again to the infernal triangle of cognitive dissonance, and study the effect of complacent C on victim B in the domestic context. A C has an interest in victim B using psychotropic drugs or psychotherapies as opposed to highlighting the infernal triangle of cognitive dissonance. He will therefore not hesitate to intrigue for this. Indeed, if the triangle is identified and denounced, then C finds himself once again faced with his own cognitive dissonance, with an injunction to action which endangers his relationship with A, something he does not have the courage for. See the question 'What is an adult?'.
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