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What is difficult to obtain from those around you?

Cessation of an abusive practice.
What is accepted is a remonstrance, to which it is fashionable to respond with an attitude of temporary contrition.
On the other hand, insisting that words be followed by facts is seen as a declaration of war. there is no longer any family, no boyfriend, no friendly colleague. All moves become permissible, and first of all discredit the learned evil which dared to trigger hostilities. Obtaining the support of other members of the group who are also affected by the criticism is then the basic strategy.

Go deeper

First see the related question 'Why are small actions for the planet dangerous?'
See questions'What is an adult?'.
See also 'What to do in a family where lying is the rule?'
Finally, the questions 'What is cognitive dissonance?' And 'Put an end to the abusive use of psychotropic drugs and psychotherapies' broaden the field of family dysfunction by introducing the notion of the infernal triangle of cognitive dissonance.

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2022-11-03 16:36:05 Cyril Quote

"La caractéristique la plus problématique de la dissonance cognitive est le besoin de faire passer pour fou, extrémiste, ou ridicule, tout ce qui est plus moral que soi, et de vouloir le faire rentrer dans le rang ... pour son bien. Un corrompu ne vit bien que si les autres sont moins corrompu que lui, mais ne dort bien que si les autres sont aussi corrompu que lui." Hubert Tonneau ;)

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